Let the Water Wash It Away: A Night to Come Back to You
- Northern Light Lotus
- May 20
- 7 min read
Hey there—welcome.
I’m really glad you’re here.
If we haven’t met yet, I’m Laura—a psychic medium, intuitive astrologer, and the heart behind Northern Light Lotus.
I blend astrology with Spirit-led guidance to help you feel more clear, calm, and connected to yourself—especially when life feels messy or uncertain.
Whether it’s your first time here or you’ve been following along for a while, thank you for being part of this space.
To those of you who check in often—I see you. Your presence here means more than you know.
This space exists to remind you of something important:
You’re not behind.
You’re not broken.
Just because things feel off sometimes doesn’t mean you’ve lost your way.
Even on the hardest days, simply showing up for yourself is progress.
Tonight’s Vibe Check: What’s in the Sky?
Let’s settle in for a quick look at what the sky’s stirring up tonight—nothing too heavy, just something to carry with you into rest.
The Sun just entered Gemini
Gemini energy is playful, curious, and loves a good late-night scroll or deep convo. Your mind might feel extra active tonight—and that’s okay!
Tip: Jot down your racing thoughts in a notes app or journal before bed. Sometimes your brain just wants to be heard.
The Moon is in Pisces (Waning Crescent)
The Moon is winding down, and so are you. This is a quiet, dreamy energy that’s perfect for reflection or surrender. You might feel sensitive, nostalgic, or like you just want to zone out for a while.
Tip: Try a quick visualization: close your eyes and picture the Moon gently pulling away your stress like a wave going out to sea.
Venus in Aries trine Mars in Leo
There’s bold, fiery energy bubbling underneath all this softness. You might feel a sudden urge to flirt, create, move your body, or express yourself.
Tip: Do one thing tonight that lets you feel alive—dance in your room, text someone you’re thinking about, or throw on a bold outfit just for you.
Jupiter in Gemini sextile Chiron in Aries
There’s a powerful opportunity to learn something healing—maybe about yourself, your past, or even a current situation that’s been hard to understand.
Tip: Ask yourself: “What lesson is trying to find me tonight?” Let your intuition answer, even if it’s just a whisper.
Sun sextile Saturn + Neptune
This is grounded dreaming energy. You’re being supported in building your vision—but not by force. More like one soft brick at a time.
Tip: Before bed, list 3 things you’re grateful for and 1 thing you trust is working out, even if you can’t see it yet.
Your Permission Slip Tonight:
You don’t have to push.
You don’t have to fix.
You’re allowed to rest, release, and remember:
Soft nights create strong tomorrows.
So now that we’ve felt into tonight’s energy together…
Let’s take it one step further.
Here’s a little nighttime message for your sun sign—a gentle reminder to carry with you into the rest of your evening. Think of it like a cozy check-in from the cosmos, just for you.
Take what resonates, leave what doesn’t, and let this be your soft landing for the night.
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Aries
You’ve been carrying a lot of fire lately—even when no one sees it.
Your energy is powerful, but that doesn’t mean you always have to be strong. Tonight, let yourself stop trying to fix or figure things out. You’re safe to rest now.
Tip: Step away from your phone for a bit. Try dimming the lights and letting yourself just be—even if it’s just for 10 quiet minutes.
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Taurus
You’ve been the steady one for others—but tonight, it’s your turn to feel held.
Let go of the need to be productive or helpful. You don’t have to earn rest or peace. It’s yours just because you exist.
Tip: Wrap up in your favorite blanket, make something warm to drink, and tell your body: “You can relax now.”
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Gemini
With the Sun now in your sign, your thoughts may be spinning faster than usual.
But the Moon is asking for softness, not solutions. Your mind can take a break, even if it feels like it wants to go a million miles an hour.
Tip: Try writing down your thoughts like a brain-dump—no structure, no rules. Then close the book and let the night hold the rest.
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Cancer
You’ve been showing up in quiet ways that no one may notice—but Spirit does.
Tonight is for coming back home to yourself. You’ve earned a little softness.
Tip: Do something nurturing—like moisturizing your hands, lighting a candle, or curling up with something comforting that reminds you of home.
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Leo
You’ve given a lot of energy lately—maybe more than you realized.
But you don’t have to shine all the time. Your light is still there, even when you rest.
Tip: Put on a cozy outfit, play your favorite slow song, and let yourself melt into the moment—no performance, just presence.
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Virgo
You’ve been overthinking everything lately, haven’t you?
Even when you try to wind down, your brain wants to tidy things up. Tonight, give yourself a break from trying to “get it right.”
Tip: Try slow breathing. Inhale for four counts, exhale for six. Let that be your way of telling your mind: “We’re safe. We’re done for today.”
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Libra
You’ve been trying to stay balanced—but you don’t need to hold it all together right now.
Let your own needs matter more tonight than anyone else’s. You don’t have to keep the peace with anyone but yourself.
Tip: Set your phone down, close your eyes, and say: “What do I need right now?” Let your body answer.
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Scorpio
You’ve been carrying heavy emotions like armor—and you’re tired.
You’re allowed to feel things deeply without having to be strong about it. Tonight is for softness, not survival.
Tip: Put your hand over your heart, take a deep breath, and whisper something kind to yourself. You’ve earned it.
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Sagittarius
You’re always chasing the next thing—but what if tonight, you let yourself land?
There’s peace in the pause. You don’t have to move forward. You just have to rest where you are.
Tip: Light a candle, listen to some gentle music, and let the moment be enough. You don’t have to “figure it out.”
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Capricorn
You’ve been in problem-solving mode for a while now.
Even when you’re not “doing,” your brain is planning the next step. But rest is just as productive as action—it refuels your strength.
Tip: Write down what you’re holding onto. Then imagine placing it on a shelf overnight. You can pick it back up tomorrow.
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Aquarius
You might feel a little disconnected tonight—and that’s okay.
You’re not broken or behind. You just need quiet. Even if others don’t fully get you, youcan still show up for yourself.
Tip: Say something loving to yourself before bed. Out loud or in your head—whatever feels right. You deserve to be your own safe place.
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Pisces
You’re feeling it all tonight, aren’t you?
The Moon is in your sign, and your emotions are close to the surface. Let them be. You don’t have to make sense of them—just be gentle with yourself.
Tip: Give yourself a bath, a song, or a breath that feels like love. Let your sensitivity be your strength.
A Message from Spirit
Before we close for the night, I pulled a card—and as always, Spirit knew exactly what needed to come through.
Tonight’s card:
You Are a Priority
This isn’t just a reminder—it’s a loving interruption.
A pause. A soft nudge from Spirit saying:
“Hey… you’ve been putting yourself last again.”
This card shows up when your light starts dimming from always shining outward.
When you’re showing up for everyone else but skipping yourself in the process.
When your needs get buried under stress, survival mode, or trying to keep the peace.
But you matter, too.
Not after you finish everything. Not when it’s finally convenient.
Now.
Because the truth is—you make better decisions, hold stronger boundaries, and feel more like yourself when you’re cared for first.
So tonight, let this card be your permission to unplug. To exhale.
To take care of you like you would someone you love.
Affirmation for Tonight:
“I matter, too. It’s safe to choose myself. My peace is a priority.”
Self-Love Tip for the Night:
If you can, take a warm bath or shower tonight—nothing rushed. Let it be your reset.
As the water touches your skin, imagine it gently washing off the energy you’ve picked up throughout the day—stress, pressure, expectations that weren’t yours to carry.
And as it flows down the drain, say softly to yourself: “Anything that isn’t mine… you’re free to go.”
Talk to your body while you’re in the water like you would someone you love.
Try something like:
“Thank you for carrying me.”
“I’m sorry for the pressure I’ve put on you.”
“I love you. I’m listening now.”
Let this be more than just getting clean—let it be a release.
A gentle, physical way to come back to yourself.
No fixing. No striving. Just love, washing over you—inside and out.
Before I head to bed tonight, I just wanted to send a little love your way and wish you a peaceful Tuesday night.
I spent some time at the beach today—so needed—and did a few readings that really touched my heart.
On the way home, I stopped at the garden center and picked up some roses for my little backyard space.
Slowing down, breathing in the ocean air, and making space for beauty… it reminded me how much the small things can reset your energy.
What helped you slow down today?
Did anything shift in your heart, even in a quiet way?
I’d love to hear what this evening feels like for you—whether you’re winding down, reflecting, or just trying to catch your breath.
And if you ever need a space to land—a place to feel supported, seen, or simply breathe—you’re always welcome in my world.
You can book a one-on-one session or join the Northern Light Lotus community—whatever feels right for you in this season.
Or just come back here Monday through Friday to hang out, catch the latest blog, and reconnect with yourself whenever you need.
No rush, no pressure—just an open door.
Until then, I’m sending love and calm energy your way tonight.
Sleep well, and I’ll talk to you soon.
—Laura
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